Many times over conversations with people, I'll start a story with something like, "I used to work at this_____." Usually within a month and half a dozen similar situations, they say, "Jeeze, you've worked everywhere!" It's been a while since I sat down and attempted to compile list of places I've worked at since the ripe age of 11. This may scream child labor. Some I'll give descriptions. Let's begin.
1. Furniture Grunt Farmer--3 houses down from our house. I was 11 tears old, visiting the neighbors and their upholstery shop when the wife asked my sister and I to stay for an hour or two to assist with removing fabric from a couch. She offered money. We both looked at each other and said, "Sure!" We apparently had nothing better to do. No schoolwork, no chores, no babysitting, nothing. Apparently. So began my first real job--taking apart furniture, harvesting and grading eggs, stamping egg cartons, and babysitting the neighbor boy on an average of 25-30 hours per week ALL while trying to keep up with school, church chit, (some) sports, home chores, home projects, babysitting siblings, and participating in daily hour-long (sometimes more) home Bible studies. Some positives about these experiences: every time I look at furniture I immediately formulate a plan and connive the best way to take it apart. This went on until job # 2. Finally, a little more freedom.
2. Greasy Cashier--My older sister paved the way for this fast-food failure once she left for college. I started working after I got my license until shortly before I graduated HS. This job was my first real exposure to the secular world. God, was I a naive, happy-go-lucky little Christain boy hoping to change one per day life for Christ. I didn't make many deep friendships here. I was too innocent and preachy in the "nice" way. I always nicely asked people to stop swearing around me and encouraged people to stop smoking because it could lead to sin. God, why!?!? I was so oblivious to being real with people. Never did I hang out outside of work with anyone there. My regret. Truly.
3. Real-Estate Gopher/House-Sitter--This job was supposed to be inside working on website design, answering phones, and filing papers. But it turned out to be the assistant to the owner's wife. She had me do EVERYTHING--file papers, upload website real estate pictures, vacuum offices, wash windows, mow the company's massive lawn, haul trash, distribute brochures, run grocery, bank, and gas errands, babysit her twin boys, clean her house, housesit, and feed the dogs. Again, I was so naive but this time to the opportunity I had in front of me. I hated most of what the job but I do believe it instilled a busy and strong work ethic. Same with the chicken chit furniture job. Work ethic. Can't buy it. I learned how to work hard at a young age. However, I really did miss out on some key education in HS and friendships. I was pressured to make money--everything that my friends did, I couldn't do unless the funding came out of my pocket. This typically starts late in HS, but for me, it started when I was 11 years old.
4. In-Between Jobs--My mom always recruited work for her kids--home chores/projects (renovating the basement with dad, building the garage, getting firewood, painting, etc...) or paying jobs. We usually did both to survive--home chores/projects because we had to earn our keep and paying jobs to get away from home to be with people other than family. It sucks that I had to pay to hang out with friends. The in-between jobs I had were raking, mowing lawns, baling hay, dog-sitting, babysitting, and many more countless wrecks. One time I volunteered at Habitat for Humanity--but not building houses. No, I made pointless phone calls to pissed-off church pastors creating awareness for the Habitat organization. I hated making those calls--I believe that has instilled a fear of phone sales in me.
5. Golf Course Clerk (summer position)
Post-HS/Undergraduate years:
6. College Work Study (2 school years)
7. Math/Writing Tutor (2 school years)
Mackinac Island Summer Gigs:
8. Carriage Tour Driver (2009)
9. Moonlight Hotel Pianist (2009-10)
10. Bike Shop Renter (2009-10)
11. Fudge Shop Cashier (2009-10)
12. Sailboat Deckhand (2010)
Grand Rapids:
13. Macy's Associate (2 months)
14. Family Video Associate (4 months)
15. Bridal Show Sales Position (terrible 1 month... it was really a scam for future couples :[ )
16. Dog Daycare Handler (3 months until they randomly stopped scheduling their workers)
17. Server/Bartender/Assistant Bouncer (7 months)
18. Bridal Boutique Intern (3 months)
Chicago/NYC:
19. Unofficial Merchandise Mart Intern for Ebel Inc. (6 months)
20. Model (one-time gig)
21. Showroom Assistant/Visual Merchandiser--India Handicrafts Inc. (seasonal in Chicago and NYC)
Home:
22. Substitute Teacher (8 months)
23. Institutional Advancement Intern (9 months)
I'm sure this list will continue to grow. I constantly yearn for growth. Hopefully the teaching assistantship will be a grand experience.
Thanks for reading!
Current love affairs: NYC, France, dusting, Oberhofer, neurology, cells, twitter, instagram, photography, Harbor Springs, cheese, The London Candy Company, and memories.
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Europe
The idea of visiting Ireland has been in my heart for about 4 years. 4 summers ago, I was ---><--- this close to hitting the "send" button to confirm a flight from Chicago to Dublin for $450 round trip. Including taxes. I was naive for not doing so. Finally, I'm gathering a plan to make the trip to not only Ireland, but also Paris, Edinburgh, London, and (hopefully) Stockholm. The targeted dates are late May to late June. Summer classes begin on the 18th, so I hope to make it back by around then. On the right side of this thread is my ideal and extremely hopeful itinerary.
Thanks for reading! Next post, I'll go into detail on what I hope to accomplish in each location. I also have more pictures of the apartment! It's quite extraordinary. Cannot wait to move in officially!
Thanks for reading! Next post, I'll go into detail on what I hope to accomplish in each location. I also have more pictures of the apartment! It's quite extraordinary. Cannot wait to move in officially!
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Applications: Part 2
TA training starts on the 27th. Ugh, I'd love to ramble on chit that's been going down around here with the nasties, but grad tips must go on!
Thanks for reading!
Current love affairs: NYC, France, molecules, ukuleles, Sia, skiing in Sweden, the periodic table of elements, swimming, Shameless, wine, cadavers, John Hopkins, and swell memories.
- Deadlines. Don't get behind! Like I mentioned earlier, have everything prepared--recommendation letters need to be the first.
- Teaching assistantships--find out if the program has any offered and apply for them even if you don't feel like you want to teach. The stipends can be up to $16,000 per school year. My stipend is covering everything except some of tuition.
- Relax. Celebrate with wine, movies, and friends to get your mind off of the apps!
Thanks for reading!
Current love affairs: NYC, France, molecules, ukuleles, Sia, skiing in Sweden, the periodic table of elements, swimming, Shameless, wine, cadavers, John Hopkins, and swell memories.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Applications: Part 1
Time to talk grad school applications!
Each program/school is different. My process of applying began after getting my GRE scores. That way I knew which schools I qualified for. However, some schools will take a low GRE score if your GPA, recommendation letters, or resume are outstanding. I was fortunate enough to ask an prior professor who attended there--her mother also used to teach there. Reason for getting in? Possibly. Here were my stats for getting into a Communication Studies graduate program at a state university:
GPA--3.04
GRE--Q: 145, V: 144, AW: 3
Letters: College professor and president of a college
3 weeks before the deadline
Solid personal statement
Writing samples
Like I said, everything I submitted was low... sometimes I think the school accepted me because there wasn't a great pool to choose from :/ Meh, at least I'm accepted. This will be the ultimate test to get (next to) perfect grades. I mean, I'm hoping a 4.0 Master's degree with teaching experience at the university level will be a great weight on my med school applications..?
There isn't much you can do about your old GPA and GRE scores (unless you take it again). So work heavily on getting a great letter of recommendation. The owner of a large and well-known company you worked for or the president of a college. Before you ask, assume that they'll say "yes" and have a folder with a list of things you want them to say in the letter--specifics on what the program is looking for that you possess. I was applying for a teaching assistant and had my "recommendors" mention that I substituted for a school district and community college for a year and also worked at a college.
Here are some general tips of advice:
Each program/school is different. My process of applying began after getting my GRE scores. That way I knew which schools I qualified for. However, some schools will take a low GRE score if your GPA, recommendation letters, or resume are outstanding. I was fortunate enough to ask an prior professor who attended there--her mother also used to teach there. Reason for getting in? Possibly. Here were my stats for getting into a Communication Studies graduate program at a state university:
GPA--3.04
GRE--Q: 145, V: 144, AW: 3
Letters: College professor and president of a college
3 weeks before the deadline
Solid personal statement
Writing samples
Like I said, everything I submitted was low... sometimes I think the school accepted me because there wasn't a great pool to choose from :/ Meh, at least I'm accepted. This will be the ultimate test to get (next to) perfect grades. I mean, I'm hoping a 4.0 Master's degree with teaching experience at the university level will be a great weight on my med school applications..?
There isn't much you can do about your old GPA and GRE scores (unless you take it again). So work heavily on getting a great letter of recommendation. The owner of a large and well-known company you worked for or the president of a college. Before you ask, assume that they'll say "yes" and have a folder with a list of things you want them to say in the letter--specifics on what the program is looking for that you possess. I was applying for a teaching assistant and had my "recommendors" mention that I substituted for a school district and community college for a year and also worked at a college.
Here are some general tips of advice:
- Setting an EARLY enough goal. Find out those deadlines and submit the application as soon as you can afford the application fee. (I'm saying that because I applied right after graduating and didn't have much money...! !)
- Find out WHAT the application wants you to send. Do they provide writing prompts or a sample? Are there personal statement questions or do you BS it? Transcripts? Sometimes the school wants double of everything sent to Records and Registration AND the division.
- Call the program director and establish an interest. Better yet, VISIT. Ask EVERYTHING about the application and coursework. I say coursework because that gives you a better feel for their program outside of what the website tells you. I was dead set on attending one school, but once I started talking about the coursework, it didn't feel right for me. I'm glad I visited.
That's it for now. Thanks so much for reading!
Current love affairs: NYC, France (Je t'amie!), Ella, beer, graduate school, hospitals, MDs, weddings, pianos, Broadway, and memories.
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Apartment
I must brag a bit about my new apartment... The lease starts on July 15th. I'm moving in officially on the 25th of August--2 days before TA training and a day after the NYC trip--a perfect amount of time to get settled! Prior to NYC, I'm moving my boxes/bed...
I've already started to collect various pieces of great furniture for the space such as a tall, skinny bench that I'm painting a charcoal gray and an old Carnegie library bookshelf I'm painting the same color. I'm putting the bench along the exposed brick for guests (and myself) to put coats on, take boots off, etc... I'd like to use the mini bar area as my desk/bill pay area. So excited!
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Thanks for reading :-] The next post will entail grad school applications.
Current love affairs: NYC, France (Je t'amie!), Neurology, Oliver Sacks, David S. Goodsell, coffee, weddings (I've played piano for 2 this week!), Grand Rapids...?, EMT training, and memories.
Friday, July 13, 2012
GRE versus David...
...I fought the GRE and the GRE won, but grad school flew in and saved the day by accepting me anyway!
Deciding to go to graduate school happened while drinking Colombian coffee at a Starbucks in Chicago. I realized that at 22, I didn't want to spend the next five years working for a marketing company making $55,000/year with full benefits in (the love of my life) CHICAGO... Crazy? A little. I wanted to go above and beyond that goal, NOW. So, I signed up to take the GRE (graduate record examinations). Most grad programs require this test--it's similar to the ACT, but for smarter and more experienced students typically with a Bachelor's. Me? Hell no, but kind of. I'm typically insecure in my ability. The cost is $120. I paid for it right away to take it in Wisconsin in October of that year--a location of one of the schools I wanted to apply to. Why was I in Chicago? Well, I was living there.
Three months prior (June), after I "graduated" from GVSU (Grand Valley State University), I moved to Chicago. I interned for a gentleman at the Merchandise Mart. This was a transitional position while I applied for jobs around the city. I was looking to work for something in marketing, PR, or communications. Several opportunities landed in my lap, but the fear of ending up with an easy-going position while enjoying myself in a glorious city scared me. There has to be more than this life, right? Well, in my eyes, yes. I wanted grad school. To accomplish what? Maximizing my potential.
Now, the process of applying for grad school varies. This was my scenario. Please understand that this process reflects my decisions. Any advice derived from it is based on my research and experience.
In late August of '11, I signed up to take the GRE. Most of the schools I was looking at required a specific score. August of '11, the GRE decided to switch its scale from a score of 200-800 in 10 point increments to a score of 130-170 broken down into 7 sections: 2 Verbal, 2 Quantitative, 2 Analytical Writing, and an experimental section. (The AW section is graded between 0-6). I think the score requirement is different for each program/each school. For Communication Studies, the average was 145+.
Alright...time for the moment of shame/embarrassment/sheer guts... My score was horrible... A 145. That is low. To me. And to most! To the grad school I'm currently enrolled in, not so much :-] Accepted complete with a teaching assistantship, half tuition waiver, and a fat stipend! I begin this fall.
Anyway, not many people crap their skirts about taking the GRE. If you scored decent or average on the SAT or ACT a million years ago, you'll be fine. A lot of it is what you may have learned in high school courses and your gen-eds at undergrad school. I scored horribly on the ACT, but excelled in my gen-eds at college. Balanced enough to deserve a 145! I try not to blame my home-schooled upbringing, but I feel that if my parents really knew how important grades, knowledge, and tests were, I would be slightly ahead. Enough blaming the past.
There are plenty of study methods out there. Kaplan is the program I chose. Now, some say that standardized tests are a way to freeze your true knowledge learned thus far. Meaning, "You have no right to study for it! If you're smart enough, you should do fine!" I agree. We are supposed to try to retain knowledge, learn with our best thinking caps on, and try to excel in basic courses such as Calculus, Trigonometry, Reading Comprehension, and Writing. However, what kills me is when advisers at colleges pressure a freshman/transfer student into choosing a major and highly suggest taking 2-3 courses in that major right away. Honestly, not many people know what they want to do in high school. If they do, more power to them! Kudos. So much energy gets wasted in a major you typically change your mind in!
Quick story: I started out with Business. Got a tiny degree. Transferred to GVSU as an International Business major with a minor in German. Took two days of German, hated it. Took MGT 268, didn't want a life in it. Wanted to do Theatre, but realized I'd rather pick and choose to be dramatic, not dramatic all my life. Finally decided on Communication Studies--the toilet of degrees once you've flushed other majors. But seriously, I was somewhat interested in the courses... and graduating in 2 years. The pressure from parents saying, "We have 6 kids to worry about, so flippin' graduate on time or we won't co-sign anymore loans!" Okay, mom! 0:-}
Back to majors and advisers. The point is, many things get lodged in your brain--courses about Witchcraft, Women's Studies, French, Accounting, and many more get in the way to accommodate your many interests. It's how some people are wired. I have many many many interests. Did I only take Communication Studies courses? I took Creative Writing, Theatre History, Model UN, Accounting, Diversity in the U.S., and several other courses. Mind you, most majors require a variety, but I harnessed my interests into a variety I liked.
ANYWAY, GRE study methods. Honestly, I half-assed the test. I should have studied more. WAY more. That's why I didn't do so hot. Which is why I'm re-taking it in March. Yep, a good 8 months of studying should do the trick! While teaching 3 sections of public speaking and trying to ace a Master's. Regardless, I'm planning on posting different areas how I study. Bur for now, my advice is to have a goal, a solid study schedule, and someone accountable to either study with or check up on your progress. What I'd like to do at grad school is confide in a professor to monthly check up on my practice tests (available everywhere online and in the Kaplan books). They'd probably love it! I hope?
It's July. I would start thinking about schools and what the GRE requirements. Sign up to take it soon. That way you're locked in--use that as a push. Deadlines for most of the good programs are in December. For others, it's February. Know ALL of the deadlines.
I'll post something later about the application process.
Thanks for reading!
Current love affairs: NYC, Robert Addison's artwork, France (Je t'amie!), trail mix, Neurology, Virology, HIV/AIDS relief organizations, IAs, clean fans, grad school, my new apartment (!), and memories.
Deciding to go to graduate school happened while drinking Colombian coffee at a Starbucks in Chicago. I realized that at 22, I didn't want to spend the next five years working for a marketing company making $55,000/year with full benefits in (the love of my life) CHICAGO... Crazy? A little. I wanted to go above and beyond that goal, NOW. So, I signed up to take the GRE (graduate record examinations). Most grad programs require this test--it's similar to the ACT, but for smarter and more experienced students typically with a Bachelor's. Me? Hell no, but kind of. I'm typically insecure in my ability. The cost is $120. I paid for it right away to take it in Wisconsin in October of that year--a location of one of the schools I wanted to apply to. Why was I in Chicago? Well, I was living there.
Three months prior (June), after I "graduated" from GVSU (Grand Valley State University), I moved to Chicago. I interned for a gentleman at the Merchandise Mart. This was a transitional position while I applied for jobs around the city. I was looking to work for something in marketing, PR, or communications. Several opportunities landed in my lap, but the fear of ending up with an easy-going position while enjoying myself in a glorious city scared me. There has to be more than this life, right? Well, in my eyes, yes. I wanted grad school. To accomplish what? Maximizing my potential.
Now, the process of applying for grad school varies. This was my scenario. Please understand that this process reflects my decisions. Any advice derived from it is based on my research and experience.
In late August of '11, I signed up to take the GRE. Most of the schools I was looking at required a specific score. August of '11, the GRE decided to switch its scale from a score of 200-800 in 10 point increments to a score of 130-170 broken down into 7 sections: 2 Verbal, 2 Quantitative, 2 Analytical Writing, and an experimental section. (The AW section is graded between 0-6). I think the score requirement is different for each program/each school. For Communication Studies, the average was 145+.
Alright...time for the moment of shame/embarrassment/sheer guts... My score was horrible... A 145. That is low. To me. And to most! To the grad school I'm currently enrolled in, not so much :-] Accepted complete with a teaching assistantship, half tuition waiver, and a fat stipend! I begin this fall.
Anyway, not many people crap their skirts about taking the GRE. If you scored decent or average on the SAT or ACT a million years ago, you'll be fine. A lot of it is what you may have learned in high school courses and your gen-eds at undergrad school. I scored horribly on the ACT, but excelled in my gen-eds at college. Balanced enough to deserve a 145! I try not to blame my home-schooled upbringing, but I feel that if my parents really knew how important grades, knowledge, and tests were, I would be slightly ahead. Enough blaming the past.
There are plenty of study methods out there. Kaplan is the program I chose. Now, some say that standardized tests are a way to freeze your true knowledge learned thus far. Meaning, "You have no right to study for it! If you're smart enough, you should do fine!" I agree. We are supposed to try to retain knowledge, learn with our best thinking caps on, and try to excel in basic courses such as Calculus, Trigonometry, Reading Comprehension, and Writing. However, what kills me is when advisers at colleges pressure a freshman/transfer student into choosing a major and highly suggest taking 2-3 courses in that major right away. Honestly, not many people know what they want to do in high school. If they do, more power to them! Kudos. So much energy gets wasted in a major you typically change your mind in!
Quick story: I started out with Business. Got a tiny degree. Transferred to GVSU as an International Business major with a minor in German. Took two days of German, hated it. Took MGT 268, didn't want a life in it. Wanted to do Theatre, but realized I'd rather pick and choose to be dramatic, not dramatic all my life. Finally decided on Communication Studies--the toilet of degrees once you've flushed other majors. But seriously, I was somewhat interested in the courses... and graduating in 2 years. The pressure from parents saying, "We have 6 kids to worry about, so flippin' graduate on time or we won't co-sign anymore loans!" Okay, mom! 0:-}
Back to majors and advisers. The point is, many things get lodged in your brain--courses about Witchcraft, Women's Studies, French, Accounting, and many more get in the way to accommodate your many interests. It's how some people are wired. I have many many many interests. Did I only take Communication Studies courses? I took Creative Writing, Theatre History, Model UN, Accounting, Diversity in the U.S., and several other courses. Mind you, most majors require a variety, but I harnessed my interests into a variety I liked.
ANYWAY, GRE study methods. Honestly, I half-assed the test. I should have studied more. WAY more. That's why I didn't do so hot. Which is why I'm re-taking it in March. Yep, a good 8 months of studying should do the trick! While teaching 3 sections of public speaking and trying to ace a Master's. Regardless, I'm planning on posting different areas how I study. Bur for now, my advice is to have a goal, a solid study schedule, and someone accountable to either study with or check up on your progress. What I'd like to do at grad school is confide in a professor to monthly check up on my practice tests (available everywhere online and in the Kaplan books). They'd probably love it! I hope?
It's July. I would start thinking about schools and what the GRE requirements. Sign up to take it soon. That way you're locked in--use that as a push. Deadlines for most of the good programs are in December. For others, it's February. Know ALL of the deadlines.
I'll post something later about the application process.
Thanks for reading!
Current love affairs: NYC, Robert Addison's artwork, France (Je t'amie!), trail mix, Neurology, Virology, HIV/AIDS relief organizations, IAs, clean fans, grad school, my new apartment (!), and memories.
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